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Your Sex Drive: Testosterone, Health, and Lasting Arousal

2012-01-16T00:19:00.001+05:30

We spend a lot of time here talking about your wife’s libido and what it takes to turn her on, but has it occurred to you that the problems you may be experiencing with arousal and orgasm might stem from the same tangled, rotten roots?

When it comes right down to it, the modern conveniences and luxuries we lust after in our day to day lives are often not very conducive to a healthy, active sex life. If you struggle to gain or maintain an erection, it might not have anything at all to do with sex! Can you believe it?

Feeling Hormonal

Not surprisingly, sex hormones (testosterone, estrogen, progesterone) play a pivotal role in both arousal and fertility. Low testosterone in men is shown to be detrimental to a healthy libido – if you struggle to get it up or get it on, it’s worth a look into your health habits and hormones. What you could possibly be doing that would be harmful to your hormones?

Is She Doing Your Bidding?

2012-01-05T00:02:00.001+05:30

Haha ok maybe not really :)

Today, we're going to be talking about

Compliance.

Webster's defines compliance as the act

of complying(conforming, submitting, performing)

to a desire, demand or proposal.

Compliance in terms of pick up means refers

to getting the girl to do something with or for you.

How To Alpha Your Competition In A Group Situation

2012-01-04T21:55:00.002+05:30

A few months ago I showed you a technique that you can
use to "alpha" your crushe's boyfriend or date when you bump into
them. Today I'm going to show you how to alpha a guy in a
group setting:

1) Wait till the guy talks. If he's the silent type,
then do him a favor by encouraging him to speak.

4 Flirting Tips to Capitalize On Everyday Life

2011-09-26T23:37:00.002+05:30

Flirting is one of the most important skills to have for a man on the dating scene. If you know how to flirt with women, it often doesn't even matter if you're good-looking, and you can walk into any environment or any situation and have women warm and open to an advance. But not every guy can get the flirting thing down - to many men out there, it seems like you either have it or you don't.

But that's not exactly true - it just takes doing it a lot so you get used to behaving in a flirty manner. Here are some tips to straighten out your own flirting game.

WHEN HER EX-BOYFRIEND STARTS TEXTING HER

2011-09-22T11:56:00.003+05:30

Let's say you've got a great woman in your life and you see great
"long term potential" there for sure.

So then, what's the single most irritating thing that "Murphy's
Law" dictates is likely to happen?

Many guys would answer that question the same way: Her
ex-boyfriend will surface out of nowhere and start texting
her--obviously interested in getting back together with her.

Who knows? He might even go so far as to start calling her and
leaving voicemail messages, Facebooking her, and whatever else he
can do to get her attention.

How To PRE-frame Obstacles Into Challenges

2011-09-16T23:44:00.000+05:30

Today I'll teach you how to PRE-FRAME obstacles
into challenges before they even become a problem.

For example, lots of readers have told me how
women often do not like them because they are too short or
too .

Well, guess what?

To turn this "ex-force" into attraction, all you
have to do is "turn it around" and act like a challenge
BECAUSE of the reason!

If you're short, tell a woman she's too tall
for you.

If you are bald, joke about her having too much
hair. Heck, call her "Cousin It" (from Addam's Family)
and tell her that her hair is scary. Ask her when was the
time she washed her hair!

If you're older, make it clear that you're only
into mature, responsible women who are NOT the average
stupid bombshell.

If you're younger, let her know that you want
someone who's excited about life and is not afraid of
adventure.

How To Reframe Obstacles Into Challenges

2011-09-16T23:37:00.000+05:30

Today I am going to teach you a very powerful
psychological tactic that could change your life.

Next time you run into an obstacle that is posing
as a barrier between you and a woman, try to reframe it as
a common obstacle that you could overcome "together".

For example, let's say you're at a public place
with a woman and things are just heating up, you could
look into her eyes and say, "Too bad we're in a public place,
or I would right now."

How To Use Reverse Psychology To Overcome Obstacles

2011-09-16T23:32:00.002+05:30

Today I am going to teach you a third trick.
I am going to show you how to use reverse psychology to
overcome your physical shortcomings. Note that I personally
prefer the last two methods (reframing and pre-framing) over
this one.

Let's say it is quite obvious that a woman is
hesitating to date you because of your height. After raising
the attraction a bit and creating a bond with a woman,
look at her in the eyes and say, "It's not easy to date
someone shorter than you, is it?"

How to Communicate Effortlessly with People

2011-09-08T22:58:00.000+05:30

I get asked a lot about how am I so good at being impromptu with strangers.

People ask me how I am able to so easily and effortlessly communicate with people, and how I am able to take a simple observation and turn it into a conversation.

My response is this: It’s very easy, because I am not censored. I don’t censor myself.

I basically see something and I walk right over to it. It’s almost like when you were a little kid and you first learned how to catch a ball.

Your dad would be standing there, you would be standing there holding out the glove. Your dad would wind up, and your legs would be shaking as the ball came toward you.

What would you do?

You would essentially put the mitt out in front of the ball to try and catch it, or you would cover your face and let the ball hit you in the head (depending on your athletic ability).

In reality, though, all you had to do was allow yourself to react to each pitch as it came toward you. That’s the same thing you have to do with conversation situations.

All I do is allow myself to react to every single situation. I don’t monitor myself. I don’t censor myself. When I see something, I react to it and it comes across as being very genuine.

The problem with most guys is that they’re always over-thinking, trying to figure out what to say or how to say it. By doing that, it never comes across as natural.

You can’t stand there for five or ten minutes before finally spitting out what you hope is the“right thing” to say.

It’s so awkward.

There is so much apprehension because you spent so much time trying to figure out what the right thing to say is.

There is no right thing to say.

It’s the way you own the words and the way you speak.

It’s the way you come across.

You can say anything, as long as you say it right away and you say it with authority. When you do that, you are going to command attention.

It’s just the way it is.

If you want to really learn this, one of the best things to do is go to any city and look at homeless people. Look at the ones who get attention and who get money.

They are the ones who go to people and say, “Hey, you look like you’re having a great day today.”
Watch homeless people and learn from them.
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How To Lead And Command A Woman

2011-09-07T21:36:00.003+05:30

Today's tip will be very simple and short. I'm going
to show you how to "lead" a woman.

The key to "leading" a woman is to "make up her mind
for her". Here's the truth: even though most of us cry
about wanting freedom for ourselves, we actually want other
people to make decisions for us. (This way, we don't have to
accept responsibility for our own actions.)

A lot of business people know this, and that's why
they often don't give you many choices when you buy something.
Studies have shown that the more choices you offer a consumer,
the harder it will be to make the sale because the person
will have trouble "making the decision".

5 First Date Mistakes that will Lower Your Value and Kill Your Attraction Game

2011-09-02T09:03:00.000+05:30

Within the first 10 minutes of meeting a woman, you can be
your own worst enemy. Say the wrong thing and you'll KILL her
attraction for you. Pick Up Artists call these mistakes
demonstrating lower value (abbreviated DLV).

The key is to be interesting and show value to attract women.
Today you'll see how to eliminate low value verbal mistakes from
your game to prevent you from torpedoing your own seduction
success.

Don't Be A Player; Be A Lover

2011-09-01T14:09:00.000+05:30

This is more of a rant.

And this is something that I truly believe. Just how many of you believe that this is a game, just a game? Well, don't count me among you, my friends.

Because all these regular writings on paper is NOT to go and exploit someone. It is to live the sweet inexplicable feeling, to cherish the beautiful moments with that special person, creating the beginning of that journey of your life.

What happens after an One Night Stand

2011-08-26T23:14:00.000+05:30

Before you even have an one night stand, know this...

If you're not giving women positive sexual experiences, then you stand

a higher chance of getting shit about it. There are ways to frame a

one night stand that make women happy and appreciative that it

happened. If you're doing this wrong, and hurting people's feelings in

the process, that's not good karma and you're going to run into

problems.

STRING HER ALONG...BUT NOT IN THE WAY YOU THINK

2011-08-25T09:15:00.000+05:30

Today we're going to talk about everyone's favorite subject:
Meeting women.

It never fails to amaze me. Just when you think every possible
idea on this topic has been thought of and written about, something
new just appears out of the blue.

The latest instance is no exception.

Recently a guy flew in to see me. Since he hit town about noon,
our first stop was to one of my favorite lunchtime haunts.

5 WAYS TO BECOME "P-WHIPPED" BY WOMEN, WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING WHAT HIT YOU

2011-08-22T15:59:00.000+05:30

There's always a lot of emphasis placed on not giving one's power
away when relating to women. Yet, the exact meaning of this
concept continually eludes a lot of guys out there.

It's easy to see why this would be the case.

On one hand, the vast majority of us don't want to be controlling
I/Js ("Idiot/Jerks").

No Natural Game - It's Life!

2011-08-22T00:15:00.002+05:30

Got "game" with women?

Can you "pick-up" women?

I've been known to criticize and make fun of certain elements of the PUA community, but I've really been "on my best behavior" lately and haven't said much of anything in a while about them.

So I'm sitting with a friend outside of Whole Foods in Venice Beach recently, just taking a break from life, and we started talking about these so-called "Natural Game" guys.

Really, we were talking about how interesting it is that they call it "natural game" in the first place.

DECODING ANGRY MESSAGES FROM WOMEN

2011-08-09T08:07:00.000+05:30

Basically, my friend (let's call him "Jeff") has been discovering
more and more of his own natural attractiveness to women and is in
turn becoming WAY bolder in his interactions with them.

This is a great thing, of course.

I've lost count of how many guys I've talked to for whom THE major
issue is simply RECOGNIZING and BELIEVING that more women are
already attracted to them than they think, just like I talked about
in that video I sent you about a week ago.

Common Dating Senses For Men

2011-07-31T08:06:00.000+05:30

As I've mentioned in the past, your success in dating
is dictated by your actions, which in turn are dictated by your
attitude.

So how do you get into the "right attitude" on a date?
The answer is by using your "common dating senses".

Here are 6 basic common dating senses that you should
have on a date:

10 Steps to Tease Women

2011-07-28T20:54:00.000+05:30

Here's a funny value-building technique that I use
all the time.

1) Look around the room for an ugly guy or a "loser".
He should be behind where your girl is sitting or standing.

2) Lean closer to the woman and tell her, "There's
a guy behind you who's checking you out."

3) Say something like, "Yes, that's him. The guy in the
funny shirt. He's been looking at you the whole time. Maybe
you should ask him out."

The 'Happy Walk' Technique And How To Use It

2011-07-28T20:52:00.000+05:30

Here's a POWERFUL technique that you can use when you
sense a woman is sad or unhappy about something other than you.

1) Ask her what's wrong.

2) As a woman, she will probably say something
like, "Nothing." Respond by saying, "Well, you're walking the
sad walk."

Why Women Walk All Over Some Men

2011-07-28T20:50:00.003+05:30

Every once in awhile, a reader will email me and ask,
"Marius, why do women always walk all over me?"

Here is what I always tell them:

It's because you let them.

After all, you can *only* be walked all over if you
*allow* other people to walk all over you.

Instead Of Getting Angry At A Woman, You Should...

2011-07-28T20:50:00.000+05:30

Here's a really simple "girlfriend management" tip.

Next time a woman does something that really upsets
you, instead of getting angry at her, try acting disappointed
instead.

Why? Because in many cases, if you get angry at a
woman, it will just show you're letting her "get to you".
For example, let's say you're going out with a woman and
she's flirting with another man in front of you to make
you jealous. (Either consciously or subconsciously...)
If you get mad at her and act upset, you'll just be giving
her the "emotional payoff" that she has been seeking all
along.

Two Reasons Why An Average Guy Does Not Get The Girl

2011-07-16T09:18:00.000+05:30

Average Guy vs. Pick Up Artist, is this month's topic. If you're an
Average Guy (or don't know if you are) listen up because...

...here's TWO REASONS the AVERAGE GUY never gets the girl:

1. THE AVERAGE GUY IS BORING

When the Average guy approaches a woman he says:

"Hey how are you?" and "Where are you from?"Read more »

10 Signs A Woman Is Getting Bored

2011-07-11T14:22:00.000+05:30

Here are a few signs that a woman is NOT interested
in what you're saying.

1) She keeps looking away.

2) She focuses REALLY hard on eating her food.

3) She won't contribute to the conversation at all.

4) She keeps talking on her cell phone or with her
friends.

5) She turns her back on you.

6) She breaks eye contact.

7) She "doesn't hear you".

8) She gives you short "one-liner" answers to you
questions - as if she's trying to get you to shut up.

9) She does not put down her book or magazine.

10) She has an uncomfortable or bored look on her face.Read more »

10 Surefire Ways To Intrigue Women Every Time

2011-07-11T14:20:00.000+05:30

What do you do when you see a woman that you are attracted to?

Do you run and hide?

Do you use some canned line that you read on the Internet?

Or, do you just stand there in fear trying to think of the right thing to say?

So, what is the right thing to do? You could just walk over and introduce yourself. The truth is that it is more about how you walk over than about what you actually say.Read more »

She's Not My Type - Read What Shelley Says

2011-07-11T14:16:00.000+05:30

On to Shelley -

"Late yesterday evening I received a somewhat funny phone call from
one of my good female friends. Here's the situation she described...

For the past few Friday's her and the man she's dated for the past
6 years, have been trying to escape from their work/ businesses
early and enjoy a late lunch together, followed by some shopping
for the house, going to an art gallery, or doing something
together.Read more »

Slow Dating Game - You Will Die!

2011-07-05T23:37:00.000+05:30

Dating Question:

I approached a girl and we hit it off really well. Got her

number, got to go out a couple of times with her, and she was

really flirty (touched my chest and put her head on my shoulder

a lot). I thought it was all good.

However, being an "unnatural," after about a month, I told her

how I felt and asked her for a kiss. Yes, you read that right,

I ASKED.

Night Club Game - Any Method You Have?

2011-07-05T23:10:00.000+05:30

*** DATING QUESTION ***

Hi, you guys are amazing. I've been reading your newsletters

for a long time now, and it's obvious that you have a METHOD.

I like this.

I've been working on my game for a long time, and found that I

have my inner game intact. I can really attract a girl, once

I know her. But I rarely go to clubs or bars, so I don't really

meet that many new women.

3 Things You Must Know How To Meet Women

2011-07-05T23:05:00.001+05:30

Here are 3 things that you must know about meeting women...

1. You must learn to act with complete and total confidence... Even
if you aren't naturally confident around women, it CAN be learned,
and a lot faster than you might think.

2. You must understand how women REALLY think, and what it takes to
build REAL attraction...

Give Her The Best Sexual Experience

2011-06-30T21:47:00.000+05:30

Yes, it is absolutely possible for a woman
to achieve vaginal orgasm without clitoral
stimulation.

But I don't think that is exactly what
you're asking.

I believe, and correct me if I am wrong here,
that you want to know if it is possible to
give a woman an orgasm during intercourse
WITHOUT direct clitoral stimulation.

You see, there are profound differences
between a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral
orgasm...

A SIMPLE, PRACTICAL WAY TO MAKE HER FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH YOU

2011-06-03T11:29:00.000+05:30

"It's like we've known each other for TEN YEARS, not TEN MINUTES."

Now if THOSE aren't the "magic words" that indicate a woman is
completely comfortable in your presence, I don't know what are.

As we've talked about before, a major linchpin of the "big four"
along with confidence, masculinity and character is the ability to
cause a woman to feel safe and comfortable in your presence...aka
"inspiring confidence".

Kiss A Girl Within 40 Seconds Or Less? You Must Be Kidding!

2011-05-27T20:51:00.001+05:30

Disclaimer: Though I am a big proponent of what you call the essential 'Don Juan' theory. I love to love women, cherish them and celebrate their womanhood, not just for a day or a month, but for a whole lifetime! It's about love, NOT 'bout sex. Yet as Simon Heong suggests here, some quick love-making sessions don't hurt either ;-)

If you've ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he didn't
know and make out with her almost immediately, it can be a
completely mind-blowing experience just to watch in the first
place.

Direct Daygame Pickup Infield Footage

2011-05-26T22:32:00.001+05:30

Being Shy SUCKS Big Time!

2011-05-25T09:09:00.000+05:30

Being shy is like the anti-thesis to
being good with women.

In case you're not familiar with the
term anti-thesis, let me put it like this:

If being good with women was
sweet as pumpkin pie, or fresh
as apples from a New England farm...

What Attracts a Woman To a Man?

2011-05-13T23:56:00.000+05:30

Tell you something…even at the end of his life, a man still tries to figure out the answer to this question. And the answer is not so easy…phew!

I can’t say that I have figured out the answer to the question, but after these couple of years, I do have a vague idea of what I THINK is the answer.

FIVE PHYSICAL SIGNS SHE LIKES YOU

2011-05-13T23:06:00.002+05:30

As you know, we talk about some rather subjective, and at times
even philosophical ideas around here.

And just like I mentioned a few newsletters ago, it's all good.
Some of those "deep" ideas are what really give you an "unfair"
edge over other guys.

What Attracts Women Like Bee to Honey!

2011-05-10T21:24:00.000+05:30

There are a lot of guys out there with
conflicting messages regarding what it
is and isn't like to be "Alpha."

As in "Alpha Man" or "Alpha Male."

Being Physically Attractive: Looks Do Count

2011-05-08T21:09:00.000+05:30

Before you start thinking women don't care about looks at all, think again. There is a certain element of physical attractiveness when it comes to getting a woman's attention, but it takes different forms than it does for men. You might see them swooning over ripped movie stars in magazines, but on a direct level their desires are a bit more simple.

For women, physical attractiveness is based on four things, and they are all things any man can change about himself--grooming, style, fitness, and body language.

Love Women and Women Love You

2011-05-04T21:01:00.000+05:30

Want to know a big secret about women? You would? OK, listen up,
and I'll tell you. Here it is: women like men who love women.

If you read any cheesy romance novel, one trait the hero always
possesses is that he loves women... in fact, he has a weakness forthem.

Be That Story For Her

2011-04-30T14:01:00.000+05:30

Did you ever wonder what it takes to really intrigue a woman when you approach her?

I mean, what is it that women REALLY want a guy to do when he walks up and talk to her?

Ever wonder what makes women respond positively to one guy who approaches them ... and respond, uh - not so positively to another?

Well wonder no more!

Four Rules To Ramp Up Your Dating Life

2011-04-29T00:09:00.002+05:30

Meeting women, getting phone numbers,
getting first dates and having LOTS of
sex is really more similar to building a
house than it is to any "artistic" activity.

You see, just like a house, you have to
add a few elements, one after another,
until you get what you want.

And, just like a house, you have to
start with a good foundation.

Playin' It Direct!

2011-04-27T14:59:00.002+05:30

One thing I understood over time, NEVER CHASE. Even when you are into direct game, don’t chase a woman. Rather, flirt and see if she responds. Some people will rename it as ‘throw the bait’. But, in the direct form of game, you DON’T throw the bait. You let her know that you are interested in her and you want her. Now, it’s her turn to reciprocate. Just make sure that you don’t bore her. Just make it a bit interesting!

Why Is She Smiling If She's Not Interested?

2011-04-21T20:35:00.000+05:30

A lot of times a reader will email me and ask, "There's
this woman who's always smiling at me. But when I asked her out,
she said 'no'. What did I do wrong?"

Well...honestly...just because a woman smiles at you
does not mean she's interested in you. The only way to find
out if a woman is REALLY interested in you is by doing the
the flirt-test. All other body language signs are SECONDARY.

Why Women Cheat In Relationships? – A Tip from ‘An Affair to Remember’ Movie

2011-04-20T13:38:00.000+05:30

Why would Ms. McKay get so hooked to Niccolo, even she knew she was engaged? Of course, Cary Grant, who played the role of Niccolo, is no doubt irresistible. Even her fiancé asked this question – “Did you find him irresistible?” And she couldn’t answer, and said, “Sorry”.

Music To Turn Her On

2011-04-18T23:14:00.000+05:30

So let me set the scene for you ...

You have met a woman you are unbelievably attracted to, and now you have her in your bedroom.

(This story is starting out VERY well so far!)

Six Date Movies You Haven't Probably Thought Of Yet

2011-04-17T12:27:00.000+05:30

It's been a couple of years since I suggested some great movies to
watch with a woman, so I figured an update was long overdue.

Let's face it. While "dinner and a movie" is a flat-out terrible
idea for a first date, that doesn't mean that either having dinner
OR watching movies is something that should NEVER happen when with
a woman.

Ten Fashion Commandment of the Cool Dude

2011-04-10T23:28:00.000+05:30

1. Thou shalt not be ungroomed. Hair, sideburns, beard,
goatee, stache, whatever. Got hair on your body, keep it
under control. Don't get lazy and let the fur grow
caveman-style. Cavemen don't get hotties.

Is She Shy Or Is She Just Not Interested?

2011-04-03T23:49:00.002+05:30

Here is what I always ask these guys:

"Is she really shy, or is she just not interested?"

In my experience, as long as a woman likes you,
she WILL respond with positive signals when you make advances -
EVEN if she's shy.

It's All About What You Want From The Girl

2011-04-03T17:42:00.001+05:30

So, you have read my blog and my articles, and you probably know what women want, right? If you don’t know, here’s a recap of the truth.

Women want TWO things from you.

Want Your Modern Day Harem?

2011-04-02T11:27:00.000+05:30

Have you ever wondered... How you can you have sex
with a woman without having to sign your life away
or give up your freedom to date other women?

I'll tell you the secret in just a minute.

The One Most Successful Secret To Pickup

2011-03-31T08:47:00.000+05:30

So check it out. I've been thinking a lot lately about what makes

a successful pickup. What I mean by that is: what are the

common threads in every successful approach I've done?

As I said, I thought about this a lot. Then I thought some more.

Was it proper execution of fundamentals? Yeah, but that sort of

goes without saying. Was it some inner game secret? Nah, too

ephemeral, I'm looking for something concrete.

6 Steps for Eliminating the "Boyfriend Obstacle"

2011-03-27T23:25:00.000+05:30

So... you meet a great woman but find out that she has a
boyfriend. It happens to the best of us.

The question is what do when you encounter the "boyfriend
obstacle?"

Do you give up OR try to still make her
yours?

Just Relax, Dude!

2011-03-27T21:07:00.002+05:30

There's an old, goofy movie from the 80's called Buckaroo Banzai.
It's based on the comic book of the same name, but apparently the
movie never matched up to the comic book.

There is one great quote, however, that comes from that movie, and
it's a quote all men who want to attract women should take toheart: wherever you go, there you are.

Difference Between Being Weak and Being Sensitive

2011-03-18T21:21:00.001+05:30

Today we're going to talk about the fine line between
being sensitive and being weak.

In my course, I tell my students to be sensitive and
attentive when they are around women. But at the same time,
I tell them to not act weak, needy, or emotional. So where do
draw the line between being sensitive and being weak or
emotional?

How To Make Her Interested In Me?

2011-03-18T07:48:00.000+05:30

Question:

I've met a woman I'm interested in at a class I am taking (let's
call her "The Blonde"). I could use some advice on how to play
this.

We met after class one night, about 3 classes ago. I find her to
be extraordinarily pretty--great body and with excellent style--so I
imagine she gets a lot of attention from guys.

When You Give An Implied Compliment To A Woman...

2011-03-12T12:55:00.000+05:30

Using something known as an “implied compliment” is a fabulous way to capture a woman’s attention and make her receptive to your approach. For many reasons, in fact, it’s better than paying her any sort of direct compliment.

Never Apologize, Never Explain!

2011-03-12T00:46:00.000+05:30

"Never apologize, never explain."

That's a quote from one of the most successful and influentialprime ministers in British history, Benjamin Disraeli.

Indecision Can Ruin You: What is She to You?

2011-03-11T15:50:00.000+05:30

There's a point I feel I haven't clarified enough in the past and want to clarify today. Because we've talked a lot about how important it is to have women in your life who are just friends and how they can help you to build a social circle and attract other women, and we've also talked about how oftentimes it's better not to hit on the beautiful women you meet because they probably have even better looking friends that you might like more.

Why Some Men Have Trouble Being A Challenge

2011-03-10T20:50:00.000+05:30

Here's something I've noticed about these guys:

They don't understand the concept of "supply and
demand" at all!

As a Natural, one of the most important things
to you should be attracting a continuous stream of friends
and women that you can hang out with - even if you're never
going to date them.

10 Tips for How to Talk to Women

2011-03-10T20:13:00.003+05:30

20 Signs a Girl Likes You

2011-03-10T20:12:00.003+05:30

Flirting Examples For Picking Up Girls

2011-03-10T20:01:00.003+05:30

Is She Too HOT for YOU?

2011-03-04T09:31:00.002+05:30

My assistant Meby passed along an email that was sent to the office
yesterday. Her comment in her forwarded email was, "This is
ridiculous! You've got to read this". And so I did.

It was a longwinded email sent in from a reader who feels that he's
met a woman who might be "too hot" and he feels that she could be
demonstrating signs of either being a slut or "out to get a man"
(Ummm... well, most single women are).

What If You and Your Best Friend Both Like The Same Girl?

2011-03-04T09:22:00.000+05:30

A question that I often get is, "Ron, what if I
have to decide between going out with a woman and keeping
a best friend who also happens to like the same girl?"

This is a really question to answer - as there's no
"proper" answer.

Many Leads To ONE

2011-03-04T09:20:00.000+05:30

I hear it all the time from men: "I just want to meet that one
special woman." Usually when I hear this, I know they're headed
for trouble because they think if they meet "the one" their life is
going to somehow be complete.

What usually happens is, after a few months, she turns out to notbe all that special, and things get bad, really fast.

4 Reasons Why You Should Learn Daytime Dating

2011-02-26T22:54:00.001+05:30

Most guys think you can only meet women in bars and clubs. That can?t be further from the truth. Just think back how many gorgeous women you?ve seen shopping. The great thing is that meeting women in the daytime is a great alternative. Here are 4 reasons why you should start meeting women in coffee shops, malls, colleges, and shopping streets.

You don?t enjoy going to bars or clubs.

Top 3 Places to Meet Women in the Daytime

2011-02-26T22:52:00.000+05:30

One of the great advantages of meeting women outside bars and clubs is the wide range of places you can meet women. At night you?re limited to bars, lounges, and clubs. In the daytime you can meet women anywhere like coffee shops, theme parks, grocery stores, and so on.

What Do I Do?

2011-02-26T18:16:00.002+05:30

*** QUESTION ***

Jeffy:

I often get tix to professional highend shows in Los Angeles and

WOMEN ( I have to been led to believe) are impressed/interested/

intrigued by guys and the uncommon events (Professional theater,

Opera, Orchestra's, Dance )

Will I Hurt Them?

2011-02-26T18:15:00.000+05:30

*** QUESTION ***

Hi Jeffy,

I hope I win some sort of prize if I'm the first person to email

you with a question. Maybe I should get a prize anyway for

asking a question that you probably don't get very often.

Is Kindness Toward Women A Form Of Weakness?

2011-02-26T18:03:00.000+05:30

There’s a big argument/debate on whether you can ever be “kind” to women.

Could she view this as a sign of strength (you are confident enough that you present yourself from a place of kindness and warmth) or weakness (that it makes you a pushover, an AFC, or worse)?

How To Have Sex On The First Date

2011-02-21T09:12:00.000+05:30

Having gone out with with literally thousands of women and gone
to bed with hundreds over the past two and a half decades, I've
learned that there's nothing you can do to GUARANTEE having sex
with any particular woman.

5 Ways to Sexually "Turn Off" Women

2011-02-21T09:09:00.000+05:30

I looked at her like she was crazy.

About a month ago, I was engaged in a deep conversation with a
female "friend" of mine. The topic was what "turns on" women.

What Are The 35 Laws of Subtle Attraction

2011-02-21T09:06:00.000+05:30

From Jeffy (Real Social Dynamics) -

So the linchpin of my teaching methodology is Attraction = Value.

My goal on program is to help the client understand this on a very

deep level, and then learn easy ways to convey as much value as

possible.

How To Series - Open Hotties Consistently

2011-02-16T20:31:00.001+05:30

Find the total Dating and Pickup How To Series here.

What's an effective opener when approaching a woman on the

street who is already 'moving' (either in the opposite direction

you're going, or she is about to walk by you as you're standing

somewhere)?

How To Series – Find a Girl of Your Dreams

2011-02-16T12:23:00.001+05:30

I have planned to create a series on dating and pickup. In this article, I am going to tell you in a few minutes how to find the girl of your dreams.

Is That The Woman You Want?

2011-02-15T23:52:00.000+05:30

From Shelley McMurtry -

Whew! The cold front got to Austin last night at around 3:15am... and
I soon found myself outside, in the freezing cold wind (in my
Victoria Secret nightgown, nonetheless), picking up various items
that had blown off of the porch and into the yard because... yes... my
dumb ass didn't pay attention to the weather reports & wind
advisory and failed to take precautions prior to the cold front
arriving.

Being A Man - Phew!

2011-02-15T23:49:00.000+05:30

Well, I came home yesterday afternoon, it was a beautiful day
outside, so I decided to take a walk around the equestrian center
and visit a few of the horses. While walking, I came across one of
the women who boards her horse at the equestrian center. She was
checking on her horse, and the man that she recently started to
date was with her.

"THE PRO"'s GUIDE TO: HOOKING UP ON V-DAY

2011-02-12T10:02:00.000+05:30

STEP ONE: GO WHERE
THE SINGLE WOMEN ARE...
********************************

(I'll be less cheesy with "The Pro"
stuff in the future... but c'mon...
you gotta give me one "gimme")

Step One: Go where the single
women are.

When To Say "I LOVE YOU"

2011-02-11T23:14:00.001+05:30

A question that I often get from my newsletter readers
is, "When should I say 'I love you'"?

For most of my readers, the answer is "NEVER".

Why? Because chances are, if you've only signed up to
this newsletter recently, you haven't gone out with the woman for
a long enough time yet. (By a long enough time I mean at least
one or two years.)

Facial Expressions - How Attractive Are You?

2011-02-11T23:12:00.000+05:30

Yesterday I was in the gym finishing up the final workout of a
month long volume-loading progression.

It was a long workout, and I saw a lot of people come and go in thegym, all with different facial expressions.

You can divide them into three categories. Neutral (most
people's), attractive (very, very few), and completely unattractive
(a "vocal" minority).

Small Penis Problem

2011-02-11T23:09:00.003+05:30

*** QUESTION ***

Hi Jeffy

You got some very interesting articles, good to read in free time.

Jeffy my major problem is that I am suffering from small penis. Could you

please advise me on this issue, what I would need to get it big? I know

there are tablets & other means available but that stuff is not permitted in

Fiji.

Is there any other way?

How To Calibrate To A Woman's Value

2011-02-11T23:08:00.000+05:30

From The RSD Team -

*** QUESTION ***

Hi guys,

Most of the material I read seems to concentrate on extreme techniques for

getting with "10s" and such. They either have high self esteem or project

it. Either way, they're used to being hit on a dozen times a day.

Get Your Body Language Right

2011-02-11T22:49:00.002+05:30

Most men have no clue on how to use body language to attract a woman.

But, learning how to use body language to attract women can prove to be a valuable resource if you really want to attract beautiful women.

After all, when you know how to use "body talk" to attract a woman, you can create triggers that will make you almost irresistible to women. If you can trigger her attraction, then you have her wrapped up and you can direct how the situation will unfold.

Get A Valentine On Valentine's Day

2011-02-11T22:48:00.000+05:30

From StyleLife -

Get Ready for Valentine's Day (next Monday)!
It's the BIGGEST PUA day of the entire year.
That's why I call it ... RED ALERT V-DAY.

Why?

Because on Valentine's Day and the days
leading up to it many single women will be on
the PROWL!

Who Is More Manly?

2011-02-11T22:46:00.000+05:30

I managed to have a relaxing yet productive day yesterday, and
towards the end of the day I decided to run a couple of errands
before the stores closed. I also wanted to pick up a few groceries,
so I stopped by SunFlower Farmer's Market on the way home.

While there, I had the great surprise of running into a male friend
of mine. We ended up visiting for about twenty minutes. Now... I
don't agree with everything this man believes in... and his views,
on many subjects, are certainly not my views... but I always love my
conversations with him because he's positive, interesting,
knowledgeable and comical.

Complimenting Women The Right Way!

2011-02-11T22:40:00.002+05:30

A nice guy walks into a bar, sees a beautiful woman, tells her how
pretty she is, showers her with compliments and then...

...watches in wonderment as she walks away with a guy who is, shallwe say, not so nice.

Women love to get compliments from men, no doubt. But there are
the good kind, and the bad kind, and most men give the bad kind.

Want To Know How Love Science Works?

2011-02-11T22:23:00.000+05:30

The science of love

When do you know if you fancy someone? What does love do to your brain chemicals, and is falling in love just nature's way to keep our species alive?

We call it love. It feels like love. But the most exhilarating of all human emotions is probably nature’s beautiful way of keeping the human species alive and reproducing.

With an irresistible cocktail of chemicals, our brain entices us to fall in love. We believe we’re choosing a partner. But we may merely be the happy victims of nature’s lovely plan.

THE Facial Expression "Trick" For Approaching Women

2011-02-07T20:40:00.000+05:30

I'll be the first to admit that my approaching skills are less
than stellar. As I've mentioned throughout this newsletter, I
prefer to build a naturally attractive personality and make
women do all the work.

Yeah it's pretty lazy, but it works for me :-)

What You Must Do If You Run Into An Ex-Girlfriend

2011-02-07T20:38:00.000+05:30

If you ever break up with a woman and then run into her
later (especially when she is already dating another man...), it
can be a very difficult and embarrassing situation for both of
you...

In fact...you will probably find it very difficult to
be nice and polite to her...

But you've got to try.

Horrible Advice On How To Pick Up Women

2011-02-07T20:34:00.002+05:30

From Jeffy -

Jeffy here, back again to bring you some of the most valuable secrets of

social interaction ever to grace an email.

Just kidding. This issue, I'm gonna give you some of the WORST advice

you've ever heard. Let's get right to it.

In my travels and my work with Real Social Dynamics, I meet a ton of

students who are just starting out in the game, and there are certain

things that they inevitably struggle with during this nascent period

of player-dom.

How To Pass A Woman’s B.S. Tests And Win Her Over

2011-02-05T09:12:00.000+05:30

Now, let me give you three scenarios to illustrate these principles in action.

Scenario One: You call to ask her out. Her response is ambivalent, something like, “Well, I’d like to but, why don’t you call me later in the week and…”

Here’s your response: “Let me ask you a question, point blank. Is going out with me something you can take or leave or is it something that you’re smart enough that you really want to do that?” Then shut the hell up and listen for her answer.

Attraction Code - Note From Vin Di Carlo

2011-02-05T08:52:00.002+05:30

Ever learn something so powerful,
or so profound, it changed the way
you saw the world - forever?

For example:

* When Columbus proved the world
was round...

* When an apple fell on Newton's
head...

What Women Want Is Passion

2011-02-05T08:42:00.000+05:30

I once had a woman tell me, "I'd rather sit down with a man who can
talk to me for five minutes about something he's truly passionate
about and I know nothing of, then to spend even a second with a
hot, rich, dull guy with no imagination."

Bingo. Every guy should read and re-read that. It's what I've
been saying for a long time: if you want to attract a woman, youfirst have to stimulate her mind. Then her body follows.

Picking UP Women vs. Making Women FALL in Love

2011-02-04T22:04:00.000+05:30

Well, if you don’t know already, picking up women is vastly different from making a woman fall in love with you.

In the dating community, you will find a huge hype about this whole term ‘pickup women’.

How do I pickup women in bars?

How do I pickup women on the streets?

Chris Orleans Interview

2011-02-04T09:01:00.001+05:30

1. Please give us an introduction about yourself.

My name is Chris Orleans and I've been a seduction coach for men for over 4 years. In that time I've spoken at the 21 Convention twice, the World Pickup Summit once and have trained hundreds of men and indirectly coached tens of thousands through my videos and articles. I guess I'd have to say that I'm probably best known for my innovation in day game, ultra-fast sexual escalation tactics and simplification of the processes associated with both.

If you had to classify my curriculum under which I teach guys I'd call it a structured natural game. You see, there are a limited number of elements which comprise the idea of the perfect seduction, when you factor in things like obstacles and various contingencies you can now develop a learning strategy to get the maximum results out of minimal effort. Thus I try to teach all the pieces of the social puzzle while simultaneously integrating your personality within that framework.

Must-Know Attributes for Would Be PUAs

2011-02-03T22:48:00.000+05:30

You may wish to have AWESOME success with women, but it won't be a
reality if you're not willing to invest your time to learn new
skills.

It's like hoping to win the New York City Marathon without going
through the proper training. As much as you'd like to make
headlines, you'll never pull it off if you lack PREPARATION.

Sure-Fire Ways to Create Instant Attraction

2011-02-03T22:45:00.000+05:30

The determining factors that makes a woman want to be with you is
not as mysterious as "experts" make it out to be. If you want to
make the most of your time in meeting (and ATTRACTING) women, I
HIGHLY suggest you check this out:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractwomen/

There's nothing else quite like it. We'll provide you with TOP
ADVICE for everything - starting from the most basic advice to the
highly advanced seduction techniques.

How To Keep Women In Relationships

2011-02-03T22:43:00.000+05:30

You know,

Years back when I first started dating, I had pretty good luck
in "finding" women, but TERRIBLE in KEEPING them.

I found myself wondering why do women break up with men, anyway?

- Is it my looks?

- Is it because I had no money?

- Is it because of my boring, lousy-ass job?

The Eight Types of Women Game Men!

2011-01-24T09:22:00.000+05:30

There are 8 different ways women
"tease" or "seduce" men into doing
things for them...

(while withholding sex!)

And each of the 8 types of women
has her own, unique way.

Are Women Offended by Your Sexual Presence?

2011-01-24T09:08:00.001+05:30

Is your sexuality inherently threatening to a

woman?

Instinctively, we know it can't be--at least at its essence--or there
wouldn't be six billion of us here on Earth.

So why is it that we're so afraid of offending women with our
masculinity? Could it be we simply are confusing "sex" with"sexuality"?